I don't look to see who is on or not on when I read a thread and respond to it. I would imagine that nobody else does either. You can paint it any way you like. It is obvious from your NUMEROUS mentions of them, that you are somehow excited, flattered, or otherwise cognizant of the comments from other males. I myself don't pay much attention to which guys are talking about me, what they say, or how often. But again, I fully support your right to live whichever lifestyle you see fit.